Illusions

For us mere mortals, peeking through the looking glass is usually about removing our rose tinted glasses. When we stop defending what is indefensible; or stop trying to force forgiveness towards things which are simply unforgivable, we can finally move on.

Falling down the rabbit hole of self acceptance may feel much like falling into a land of madness. Things you once overlooked now strike you as intolerable. You now feel strongly about your boundaries which may repel those who miss their access to you. The sense of disorientation will soon abate when you realize the idea you needed them to survive was nothing more than an illusion.